Life is like a roller coaster, you may face a huge wave of differences, up and down, sometime it really make you fell like you are the queen or a king in the world, like every thing is under your control, and sometime hiccup do happen on and off, till you really wants to give up, never the less that some one that you trust have started to walk away from you. It might be a very Small matter, sometimes lack of communication can really make a big bobo. I learn this in my working life, and do a lot of "drill down" and "probing" method, this really helps in our personal life, it really solve a lot of problems apart from work.

Problems are always there in our life, there's no way we can avoid or run away from it .... and there's only 2 way we can do :

(1) hands on and get things right.
This can make a better and a clearer picture. You will know what's
actually happen, what is the cause of the problem, and if you drill
down further, there will be more and more answer
to your problem. Analyse it and solve it one by one.
(2) leave it as it is.
This is what we call it, take an easy way out. You are running away
from the truth, running away from the problem, at the end, you get
nothing, you don't even know what's the cause, how to cure...

I pick (1) ....　what's yours?